You must have noticed the as parents
the way how you treat your little child affects his process of growing resulting
in normal or abnormal growth. . You must notice that sometimes in spite of
providing many different Dora Games and primary in case of male
gender the thrilling Puzzle Games, the child's response is not satisfactory.
At different occasions your kid
looks at you to find out how to react. This is a serious issue because many
moms are worried about problems that they think are their kid's, but that are
really their own.
No doubt the worries and problems
seems to affect only the mothers but you must be well aware of this fact that
the very attitude is also taking your child's nerves into its custody. The
child victims to such gross attitude can very easily fall into the hands of
absentia. He may develop fear and hesitation in performing the daily tasks.
How about you? Do you project your
own fears, worries or needs on to your little angle?
If you do, don't worry. Every mother
does it to a certain extent. Yet it is important to separate your own issues
from those of your child. If you don't, your child may take on your fears and
concerns.
As a remedy to get rid of fear
factor, you must try to arrange different Baby Hazel All Games for your child. As
well as to keep your worries to yourself you must try to follow the 4 A's
techniques such as:
- ACCEPT that because you and your child are so close, sometimes blurring the boundary between your feelings and hers is part of being a mom.
- ACKNOWLEDGE the areas in which you are prone to projecting your issues.
- APPRECIATE how, when your feelings get confused with your child's, that confusion inhibits your child's healthy development.
- ACT on your child's behalf: Even if you don't feel any different, always act as if you do.
In short, when you ACCEPT that you may
project your feelings on to your child, ACKNOWLEDGE when you do it, APPRECIATE
the reasons that firmer psychological boundaries are needed, and ACT by
changing your response, you give your child the opportunity to react positively
rather than instilling in him fears that originate within you.
As parents it is your duty to look
after your young one in every possible way. Since you are the role model for
your child, you need to keep yourself calm and secure. By keeping your worries
to yourself and by arranging different Baby Games Online, you can help your son
or daughter to become who he or she is meant to be.
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